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Men Share The One Personality Trait That Immediately Makes Them Wanna Wife A Woman Up

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For publiusnaso, it’s about independence and confidence:

You actually order what you want in a restaurant, not what you think other people think you should be eating.

You’re really good and knowledgable about something (music, mechanics, gardening, construction – anything really).

You have a biting wit.

You’re not reliant on other people to do things for you because you can’t be bothered to figure it out for yourself (dependency and neediness is such a huge turn-off).

You don’t set conversational traps (or get pissed off if you ask a question and get an honest answer).

Being open to trying new things:

Being genuinely interested in trying new things. Even if they don’t share your interests to begin with, at least you know that they will be willing to stick with you wherever you go.

Bigtcm says it’s about self reliance and self confidence:

My ex was brimming with with it which made me super attracted to her. She wasn’t a princess who needed saving all the time.

For instance, one time we went out to a the neighborhood pub together and split up for a bit because we each saw our own friends. She was looking super hot and I guess started getting hit on while at the bar and the guy wouldn’t leave her alone.

She made sure the other dude was watching, bought a pint of beer, came up to me and explained her situation by whispering into my ear, then gave me a kiss and gave me the beer before going back to her friends.

Geezus. Just knowing that she doesn’t need a dude to take care of her all the time and that she could have any one at the bar and willingly chose me…Super hot.