Finding butthole-talk funny:
If she enjoys inappropriate/gross/offensive/dark humour. Even better if she gets involved in crazy conversations about buttholes.
Loyalty and empathy above all else, says Theharshcoldtruth:
Loyalty and empathy. Looks fade and interests can change over time but what makes a person shine is how they treat others. Because in the end you want a partner that will be by your side when shit hits the fan. You want someone to support you when you hit your lowest point, someone who won’t drop you the minute things get hard.
That imo is the most desirable trait a person can have. Everything else is a plus but it doesn’t compare to this. Intelligence is overrated if she is a ice-cold mofo, humor is nice but I can also read joke if I wanted to laugh. But the two traits I mentioned are very rare and very few people are genuinely like that. If you find someone like that, cherish them with all you’ve got.
Enjoying a good pun:
My main character trait is stupid puns. I lived with a girl at uni, she was stupidly hot but I never felt anything for her until she made a pun and in that moment I fell for her.
Unfortunately, this was too far into my final year and she had some personal issues, so I never acted on it.