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These Are the Results of Sleeping With Your Best Friend

8.

We had been really close thru high school and went to the same college so stayed close. She was the girl my girlfriends didn’t want me hanging out with because we were so close and I can be flirty without meaning to be. One night we were out together and had both just gotten out of relationships, we went back to her place and hooked up. Went to breakfast in the morning and it was weird. We both talked about how it felt weird and we shouldn’t do this again because we are so close. Never happened again and we are still really close to this day. My brother is engaged to her sister so we will probably be close forever and I couldn’t be happier about how things went.

9.

We got drunk at a party and she invited me back to her place for a night cap. We did it. It was magical. For me, it felt better than anyone else I’ve ever had sex with. She came for the first time. So, we started dating. Now 10.5 years later we’re married, and just had our first child.

10.

We’ve been close friends for maybe 5 years but had the drunken kiss a few times & never taken it further. She was over at my place drinking wine the other week & went upstairs & had amazing passionate sex. It just felt so good. The next day she texted me & said “it was fun, but can we leave it at that? I don’t want either of us to be hurt or uncomfortable” and we haven’t spoken about “it” again. I feel like it’s changed our friendship. We don’t talk to each other like we used to before and i don’t know if we can get that back. While it’s not awkward… it’s just different now. She seems shy & nervous now. I don’t know if it will happen again. I feel like there are things we both want to say. I feel like it meant something to her too & it’s scared the shit out of her so she’s retreated.