Here’s a handy checklist. Yes, it’s still confusing.
For me, my actions speak before I even realize but here’s some things I noticed about me, may apply to other women IDK.
EDIT: This list, of course, does not apply to ALL women, and only if all boxes are ticked do I like a guy. I have guy friends I play WoW with, but I won’t stay up late to talk to them.
*If I try to feed you (cook or buy food, like a Subway or pizza).
*If I try to get you to play the video game I like.
*If I speak to you for nothing but a conversation or link you a meme to get a conversation going. You aren’t asked for or to do anything, except maybe hang out with me :}. If a girl speaks to you then almost instantly asks you to drive her somewhere without you (like a party) then she isn’t into you. If she speaks to you then asks if you wanna go see a movie, she may be!
*If I tell you about events I think are cool and totally want to go to.
*If I take an interest in the music/films etc you link to me.
*If I let you get into my personal bubble – this is a hard one to determine. You have to observe a female in her natural habitat (with friends). Does she stand slightly closer to you when talking to you? Does she lean toward you when you sit next to each other? Does she touch you or impede on your personal space unexpectedly? It can be hard to tell with more “touchy-feely” people.
*If I’m talking to you way after my bedtime.
Or you could stop looking for signs and just ask đŸ˜€
Grubbery
Attention K-mart shoppers… no seriously, pay attention.
At age 21, when I first met my current boyfriend I couldn’t figure out how to flirt, So I asked a group of friends if anyone needed a ride to K-mart and then whisper-begged everyone besides him to bail. So he and I went to K-mart alone to get groceries and then we got fries afterwards. I pretended to be really interested in Jones Soda. Then I told him I liked Thundercats a lot, which I don’t, I’m not sure why I said this.
Two weeks later after numerous stunning displays like these my friend told him I liked him and he said he had no idea.
We have been together for 9 years now.
layoxx
*Facepalm*
Once went on a nice 2 or 3 mile run with a girl. She dropped me off at my house and we agreed to meet up at her house when I got done with my shower, told me her backdoor would be unlocked and I could come in. After a my shower I drove up, went through her back door and into her room and chilled on her bed to dick around on my phone. After like 20 minutes she comes out in a towel and says, “Some reason I kept thinking you were going to come get in the shower with me, my door was unlocked.” I just looked at her and said, “Naw.” Then she looked down at herself in a towel, picked up some clothes out of her closet and walked out angrily. I had the biggest crush on that girl for like 3 years prior and blew my chance. Gotta love high school.
nerdekabir
